When We Becomes Me - Surviving the Loss of a Spouse

In the event that you take "WE" and flip around it moves toward becoming 'ME'. That is entirely cool inside itself; yet ME can be a forlorn place.

Til' Death Do Us Part appears like quite a while away when the pledges are first said. Indeed, even as the years advance, we never truly need to confront the way that one the very first moment of us will go. I trust that from the earliest starting point we are all in a steady condition of disavowal.

My reference point is 37 years of an extremely superb and satisfying relationship. Positively there were high points and low points and in's and out's yet we realize that things happen ~~ LIFE HAPPENS! What's more, now in reflection, the in's and out's and good and bad times appear to be extremely unimportant.

At first there is this 'Distress Process' that we have all found out about; Shock and Denial, Pain and Guilt, Anger, Depression and the rundown goes on. All things considered, I will disclose to you that I found that these sentiments and feelings don't come in any sequential request. Indeed, actually, I was resolved not to engage any of them - ever whatsoever. Why?, since I trusted that I had everything in perfect order and I knew where my better half was (resting in the arms of the Master). So that being stated, why would it be a good idea for me to be furious or discouraged or feel agony or blame? Not really!